Change your BS (Belief System) around confidence, success & relationships - lead your life from joy, not anxiety

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From unworthiness, doubt & anxiety to feeling confident, happy & successful

NEUROSCIENCE-BASED COACHING TO BREAK ANXIOUS PATTERNS, DEEPEN SELF-TRUST, AND CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT.

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Why Coaching?

1. You are not “generic.”
A coach, like me, works with your uniqueness, wiring, nervous system, and patterns. It is not one-size-fits-all advice from the internet.

2. Insight without change keeps you stuck.
Knowledge requires application to create meaningful change. Coaching helps you identify what drives your reactions and actively rewire them in a personalised way.

3. Information is everywhere; integration is rare.
Social media gives tips out of context. Actively working with a coach provides support that is unique to you

4. Change happens through awareness + practice.
My coaching blends neuroscience, emotional regulation, and real-life application, so the work we do isn’t “motivational”; it’s sustainable.

5. Instead of advising, coaching helps you discover what is true for You, what kind of life You want to lead, and how you can create it (because you can!)

Hi, I’m Jelena, a neuroscience-based leadership coach.

Whether you believe it or not but your BS (Belief System, of course) creates your reality. I help you unlearn impostor syndrome, tackle overthinking, and rid of self-doubt, so you can finally stop overperforming while under-receiving in life and love.

Today I live in my dream country, have a deep, healthy relationship with myself and my partner. I trust in life completely.

But in my past, none of those things were true.

My Story

While building my career, changing countries, earning promotions, and training teams… my personal life was quietly collapsing underneath it all.

My partner of seven years disappeared into prison — without warning.
The next man I loved drowned. And through it all, I kept performing while falling apart inside.

I lived with chronic anxiety and four years of insomnia.
On the outside: capable, competent, reliable.
On the inside: terrified of loss, stuck in hypervigilance, unable to rest.

Therapists gave me breathing exercises, and told me to create vision boards. You can imagine that none of this helped.

Nobody gave me what I actually needed: a path to rewire my mind and return to myself.

And so 5 different therapists and 1 very expensive hypnotherapist (I know!) later, with the last resort of hope that I had in me, I turned into coaching.

Ready for Change?

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True Success Is When You:

  • Feel safe, confident and free to experience emotions and go through them

  • You feel emotionally secure, even when life is uncertain

  • You feel at home in your identity and your decisions

  • You stop over-giving and start experiencing mutual, healthy relationships

  • You move through life with confidence, clarity and self-respect

If this isn’t you, it’s time to take the next step

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How I can Help?

Does this sound familiar?

  • You appear confident, yet secretly you second-guess yourself & feel like an impostor

  • You seem strong, yet inside, you’re tired of holding everything together

  • You find yourself in emotionally unavailable dynamics or becoming distant when overwhelmed

  • You over-give, over-function & over-analyse

  • You fear being “too much” and “not enough” at the same time

  • You worry that things will never get better

What makes my approach different:

  • I'm not someone who simply read about functioning anxiety in a textbook.

  • I’m someone who lived it, suffered it and healed it through coaching & neuroplasticity techniques.

  • I help you create deep, lasting internal change so that confidence & and self-trust become your new normal.

    My work combines:

    • neuroscience-based coaching
    • emotional intelligence & behavioural work
    • nervous system regulation
    • identity and belief transformation

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  • "Within 6 weeks, the constant panic had quieted"

    ★★★★★

    Before working with Jelena, I'd spiral into panic every time my boyfriend didn't text back for hours. I'd tried therapy for general anxiety, but this specific fear still stayed. Even though I didn’t actually lose someone badly, I was just anxious as a person, I thought.

    I'll admit I was skeptical about coaching - would it really be worth the investment? But within 6 weeks, the constant panic had quieted. I could go hours without checking my phone. What a relief! Now I can focus on my own things and I still continue doing the exercises she gave me to help with other things.

    I would highly recommend her to anyone who wants to feel amazing in love and life!

    —Polina

  • "I finally feel like myself again."

    ★★★★★

    I came to Jelena as a shell of who I used to be. I'd spent so many years saying yes when I meant no, making myself small to keep everyone happy and after having two kids I just didn’t prioritise myself anymore. Jelena showed me that people-pleasing wasn't kindness, she taught me how to rewire the thought patterns that made me believe I had to earn love by trying to make everyone happy.

    I started saying No without guilt spiraling for days. I spoke up to my husband about what I actually needed instead of being angry at him. And the most shocking part for me? My marriage got BETTER, not worse.

    I finally feel like myself again. Thank you!!!

    —Maria

  • "For the first time in my life, I finally feel in control of my wellbeing"

    ★★★★★

    Before working with Jelena, I was always so anxious in relationships. One of my boyfriends cheated and I was always scared that others will do the same.

    What made Jelena’s approach different was deeply understanding my anxiety and my experience. I learnt A LOT about myself, and about what was taught to me growing up. I am from Eastern Europe and growing up I constantly heard that one of the most important things in a woman's life is getting a guy. Now I see how ridiculous that is and how little I allowed myself to be.

    For the first time in my life, I finally feel in control of my wellbeing and happiness and I see myself differently. I think that every woman who wants to feel good about herself should work with Jelena.

    —Sarah

  • "Exactly what I was looking for!"

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    I was completely paralyzed by decisions. Should I take this job? End this relationship? Move? Every option felt terrifying. What if something bad happened because of my choice?

    So I just... didn't choose.

    Working with Jelena helped me understand that my fear wasn't about the actual decisions - it was about not trusting myself to handle the outcomes. She explained to me how my brain had learned that my choices led to pain (after some traumatic experiences years ago), so it tried to protect me by keeping indecisive.

    She taught me how to rewire that belief. How to separate past pain from present reality. How to build evidence that I could trust myself.

    After our work together, I ended a relationship that wasn’t serving me. The old me would have needed 3 years and a complete meltdown to do that.

    But I'm not scared anymore. And that's changed absolutely everything.

    —Lauren

My Credentials

  • ICF Certified Coach

  • Additional specialised training in thought-work coaching

  • 10+ years of experience plus experience in healing high-functioning anxiety in myself

  • Extensive study of neuroscience, neuroplasticity, and nervous system regulation

  • Trained in Byron Katie's "The Work"

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But honestly? My real credential is this:

I've walked the path I'm asking you to walk.

I know every twist, every setback, every breakthrough.

And I know the way through.

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